tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-81390904731421210592024-02-20T11:07:18.143-08:00Joyful CalamityLizhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16177816999445200498noreply@blogger.comBlogger89125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8139090473142121059.post-39885624813784699692013-02-10T02:00:00.000-08:002013-02-10T02:00:05.136-08:00100 Things to Do in 2013<div style="text-align: justify;">
I decided to be open and sharing about what I want out of my 2013. So, without further ado, here is my brainstorm of 100 things to do. I tried to keep in mind my 2013 theme of "Active Renewal" while coming up with ideas. I decided this was a year to get back to me as opposed to moving forward. A year to build to foundation.</div>
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1. Start daily yoga </div>
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2. Learn to rock climb </div>
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3. Quarterly massages (0/4)</div>
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4. A week alone at my family's camp </div>
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5. Monthly date nights with Corey (0/12)</div>
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6. Take a photography class </div>
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7. Go camping 3 times (0/3) </div>
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8. Stand at the top of a mountain</div>
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9. Pay off my car </div>
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10. Find a group of Portland friends </div>
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11. Go to The Nutcracker</div>
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12. Start journaling </div>
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13. Buy a better camera </div>
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14. Tailor CTS job for me </div>
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15. Learn some new updos </div>
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16. Go to the ballet </div>
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17. Complete a non-blanket crochet project</div>
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18. Clarify my personal style </div>
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19. Learn to shoot a gun </div>
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20. More girl time</div>
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21. Take a course in designing blogs </div>
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22. Take a dance class </div>
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23. Find a local "escape place"</div>
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24. Get a bicycle </div>
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25. Figure out what I want to go to school for </div>
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26. Create a morning ritual</div>
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27. Make all Christmas gifts </div>
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28. Find a way to make extra money/income</div>
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29. Go on a whale watch </div>
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30. Figure out my patron god/goddess </div>
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31. Study and learn my oracle cards </div>
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32. Go to a casino </div>
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33. Stop biting my nails</div>
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34. Go skinny dipping </div>
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35. Get my passport </div>
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36. Buy something that makes me feel sexy</div>
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37. Read "Game of Thrones" </div>
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38. Watch "Game of Thrones" </div>
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39. Make a perfect planner</div>
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40. Day with Corey at the beach </div>
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41. Go to Boston </div>
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42. Plant an herb garden</div>
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43. Get a hammock </div>
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44. Karaoke </div>
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45. Go to the drive-in </div>
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46. Eat more fruits and veggies </div>
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47. Have a birthday party </div>
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48. Lord of the Rings movie marathon </div>
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49. Make s'mores</div>
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50. Naughty times outdoors </div>
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51. Take a college course </div>
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52. Start a business plan for whole life wellness </div>
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53. Complete The Joy Equation </div>
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54. Dance!!! </div>
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55. Finish all the main quests in Skyrim</div>
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56. Read "The Hobbit" and "The Lord of the Rings" </div>
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57. Weekend away with Corey</div>
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58. Weekly shag </div>
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59. Get a dog </div>
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60. Move somewhere we can have a dog</div>
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61. Create/start a Project Life or Corey and Liz album </div>
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62. Doctor and dentist checkups</div>
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63. Funtown/Splashtown day </div>
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64. Pay four overdue bills (0/4) </div>
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65. Save $1000 </div>
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66. Hula hoop more </div>
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67. Create a 5 year plan with goals and action plans</div>
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68. Get my car a complete tune up </div>
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69. Stop taking my "life unhappiness" out on Corey</div>
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70. Take a self help/improvement course </div>
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71. Cook better meals </div>
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72. Visit Debsconeag Ice Caves</div>
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73. Make a quilt </div>
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74. Go to a concert </div>
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75. Check out Soakology </div>
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76. Eat 'clean' for at least a month </div>
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77. Take an entire day hike </div>
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78. Take a kayaking trip</div>
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79. Make a gratitude journal </div>
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80. *Private* </div>
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81. Read the books I already have before buying more </div>
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82. Start a side business</div>
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83. Take a class to improve my blog </div>
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84. Find my soul color </div>
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85. Watch all the new seasons of Dr. Who </div>
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86. Cull Google Read / find "must read" blogs to inspire me</div>
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87. Find a regular hang out spot in Portland </div>
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88. Start to really build life with Corey</div>
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89. Try Bikram yoga</div>
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90. Be more kind</div>
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91. Climb a tree</div>
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92. Plan a big awesome anniversary</div>
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93. Take an art class</div>
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94. Be less judgey</div>
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95. Be happy!</div>
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96. Figure out what I really want in life</div>
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97. Make bread</div>
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98. Do all the workbooks that I have already bought/downloaded</div>
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99. Let go</div>
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100. Accept where I am in life and start the changes I want</div>
Lizhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16177816999445200498noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8139090473142121059.post-60534149227639145692013-02-08T02:00:00.000-08:002013-02-08T02:00:06.148-08:00On My Shelf // February 2013<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/7826117-jane" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px;"><img alt="Jane" border="0" src="http://d.gr-assets.com/books/1337854103m/7826117.jpg" /></a><a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/7826117-jane">Jane</a> by <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/119005.April_Lindner">April Lindner</a><br />
My rating: <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/511844706">3 of 5 stars</a><br />
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Even though (I believe) that this book was written for young adults, I really enjoyed it. It is a modern take on "Jane Eyre", with the Mr. Rochester character being a rock star. The action was fast paced enough to make this a quick read, but the Jane in this version is a little ... "blah". I never really understood what "Mr. Rochester" saw in her. And why a modern relationship would move that fast - as in first kiss to engagement in ... two(?) days.<br />
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Here's the summary from Goodreads : "Forced to drop out of an esteemed East Coast college after the sudden death of her parents, Jane Moore takes a nanny job at Thornfield Park, the estate of Nico Rathburn, a world-famous rock star on the brink of a huge comeback. Practical and independent, Jane reluctantly becomes entranced by her magnetic and brooding employer and finds herself in the midst of a forbidden romance.<br />
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But there's a mystery at Thornfield, and Jane's much-envied relationship with Nico is soon tested by an agonizing secret from his past. Torn between her feelings for Nico and his fateful secret, Jane must decide: Does being true to herself mean giving up on true love?<br />
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An irresistible romance interwoven with a darkly engrossing mystery, this contemporary retelling of the beloved classic Jane Eyre promises to enchant a new generation of readers."<br />
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I have heard from quite a few people, mostly those who loved the original, that didn't like this version. I think that the reason I liked it is because I had a hard time getting into the original. I love the movies, but for some reason, the book is too slow for me to read.<br />
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I recommend this for those who love the movies, but not the book. If you like the original, you probably won't like this book.
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<br />Lizhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16177816999445200498noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8139090473142121059.post-38877748313401462442013-02-06T02:00:00.000-08:002013-02-06T02:00:12.383-08:00Trip of a Lifetime // Part Duex<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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My initial post about <a href="http://joyfulcalamity.blogspot.com/2012/10/the-trip-of-lifetime.html" target="_blank">my dream road trip </a>seemed to really catch a lot of people's interest, so I thought a nice follow up was in order. I am still dreaming and plugging away at a plan for this, but I really think that maybe I'll be able to make it a reality. Which is <u>super</u> exciting!<br />
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Somewhat coincidentally, I found this book a weekend or two after my initial post at my local dump's "treasure house" - which, if you don't know what that is, is where people put their stuff they don't want but is too good to throw away. Even though it was published quite some time ago, it looks pretty interesting. It has helped me to add a couple more places to my list .... like I needed more, right? I'm thinking I might need to really sit down and figure out which part of the country to really focus on. I'm thinking the Rocky Mountain region. Maybe South Dakota/Idaho. Or Arizona/Utah. Okay ... it might be tough for me to narrow down. I want to see everything!!!<br />
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I think that the biggest planning will really have to be the budgeting and saving. Not only will I have to save up for the actual trip, but I'll have to save up for the months off of work. At the moment, my rough estimate is that I will need at least $1,000.00 for each month I plan for. This seems high, but I want a little wiggle room for unexpected splurges - opportunities that are just too good to pass up, a really nice restaurant, that sort of thing.<br />
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I'll also have to budget having Corey join me for a bit too. He won't be able to do the whole thing since he has his daughter every other weekend, but he should be able to join me for a week or so. And everyone is entitled to an awesome vacation every now and then.</div>
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<br />Lizhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16177816999445200498noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8139090473142121059.post-48052751010066967322013-02-03T02:00:00.000-08:002013-02-03T02:00:03.666-08:00Monthly Oracle Reading // February 2013<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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What a weird thing to pull the "true love" card for the month of love. But the universe wants to tell me something and I plan on listening.<br />
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<i>Message from Guinevere </i>: Romance is not an outmoded concept - far from it! Romance is the time-honored precept of merging with the Divine as it's manifest within another human being. Romance is also playfulness, which heralds springtime, flowers, and new life. You needn't be in a partnership to evoke yourself through laughter, surrounding yourself with beauty, and indulging in luxurious treats. Romance is the life-force of the universe, and is a worthwhile goal indeed.<br />
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<i>Various Meanings of this Card </i>: Your soul mate relationship has arrived or is soon arriving * There is renewed passion in an existing relationship * You're a very romantic person * Your romantic needs aren't being met, and you must take steps to alleviate this</div>
Lizhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16177816999445200498noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8139090473142121059.post-67796112641835612342013-01-31T02:00:00.000-08:002013-01-31T02:00:13.482-08:00Gratitude Thursday // January 2013<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-size: small;">Today, I am grateful that life seems to be getting (slowly, but surely) less stressful. I'm grateful for the jobs that Corey and I have that provide enough to pay the bills, pay off old bills, and have a little left over for fun. I am grateful for the roommates letting us move into their empty room. I'm not sure how we could have afforded rent at this moment in Portland without them. I'm g<span style="font-size: small;">rateful that Corey and I<span style="font-size: small;"> have a re<span style="font-size: small;">lationship that is strong enough to weather the bad times and is only getting be<span style="font-size: small;">tter and better. I am grate<span style="font-size: small;">ful that I was <span style="font-size: small;">able to make some <span style="font-size: small;">w<span style="font-size: small;">onder<span style="font-size: small;">ful friends in Bangor and grateful <span style="font-size: small;">for the op<span style="font-size: small;">portunity to make some more <span style="font-size: small;">here <span style="font-size: small;">in Portland.</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></div>
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Lizhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16177816999445200498noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8139090473142121059.post-70197402893139516582013-01-30T05:48:00.003-08:002013-01-30T05:48:47.674-08:00Update<div style="text-align: justify;">
So ... I sort of fell of the face of the earth for a bit. Oops! But, I was impressively productive during this time, crossing a few things off my to-do list.</div>
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First, I updated my design. If you're getting this on a reader, click through and check it out. I decided to make is simple with whites and greens. It is still looking a little <b>too</b> bare, so I will hopefully be adding a bit more color soon. Also updated is my "About Me" page.</div>
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Second, I finally finished the Holiday Council and started Leonie Dawson's Incredible Year. One of the fun things that I did on the Incredible Year was an oracle reading for each month. I plan on sharing them at the beginning of the month, so get ready for that. Another fun thing, that I am thinking about sharing, is a list of 100
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I think that the two really work well together. Holiday Council helped me rehash my 2012 and figure out where I wanted to go in 2013, while Incredible Year really helped me with plans and goals for the upcoming year. Another fun thing, that I am thinking about sharing, is a list of 100 things to do in 2013 - fun things, serious things, life improving things. </div>
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Lastly, I have done really well being less of a raging bitch all the time. Even Corey noticed a difference. I am working really hard not to let <b>everything</b> stress me out. Some days are more of a struggle than others, but I am getting there. </div>
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<b>What have you accomplished in the first 30 days of the new year?</b></div>
Lizhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16177816999445200498noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8139090473142121059.post-20315403214138889082013-01-17T02:00:00.001-08:002013-01-17T02:00:05.979-08:00Letting Go....<div style="text-align: justify;">
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The last month or so, I have become very angry.... at everyone. There isn't an hour that goes by that I don't have some anger. And I want to stop. I don't enjoy the negativity. It leaves me feeling drained of energy, feeling even worse before, and unhappy with myself. I end up cutting people out of my life - either for an hour, the day or for longer periods of time. I just don't want to deal with people.</div>
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Most of the anger is born out frustration. Frustration over things I mostly can't control. But I can control my reaction to them. From now on I am choosing to let more things go. To realize it isn't worth the energy that I spend on them.</div>
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One thing that I can control is my relationship with Corey. I need to be more vocal and less passive aggressive about what I need out of the relationship to be happy. Because of his depression, I let things slide that I shouldn't and, as a result, I feel resentful and annoyed at him all the time. Part of that, and I feel like a huge bitch saying this, is because I believe that he uses his depression as an excuse at times. I say that I am feeling neglected - his response "Well, I'm depressed." A "So get over it" is implied in his response... at least that's how I hear it. <i>**I wrote this a few weeks ago, and things have started getting better in that time. We are talking about getting our own place again, going on vacations, and saving for the future. It helps that I am more vocal about being uphappy and Corey is also happier since he is working again and not as stressed about money. **</i></div>
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I also have issues with my father that I let needle at me. In this case, I need to forgive him, even if I don't forget, and move on. I can't let his mistakes and actions haunt MY life forever.</div>
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Another problem is trying to discover my passion in life. I don't have anything. My job isn't something I see myself doing forever, I don't have any hobbies I'm passionate about, I've lost the spark I had in life when I lived in Colorado. It's so frustrating to feel like I could or should be doing something great with my life and not knowing what that something is.</div>
Lizhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16177816999445200498noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8139090473142121059.post-24042325427102418682013-01-15T02:00:00.000-08:002013-01-15T02:00:01.236-08:00What a Start to the Year<div style="text-align: justify;">
Two weeks into the new year and it is shaping up to be just as crazy as 2012.</div>
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Corey's father was flown down from a hospital in northern Maine to the one here in Portland at the beginning of the week because they found a brain tumor. A rather large tumor. He had his surgery Friday and seems to be doing really well. We are hoping that he will be able to "go home" in the next day or two, although he won't be going to his home since he lives alone. For the first month or so, he will need 24 hour care. I wish there was more that Corey and I could do.<br />
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I also caught whatever death cold that has been going around the house and work. I was knocked flat for about four days. I still have a nasty cough, but other than that I am feeling quite a bit better. The warm weather here on the coast has been helping. I have a coughing fit every time I go from the super cold outdoors to the warm indoors. </div>
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Obviously, because of the cold and the hospital visits, I haven't had time a lot of time to spend on hobbies, this blog - heck, I have way too much laundry to do tonight. I'm hoping to get everything back on track to make 2013 a good (and non-stressful) year.</div>
Lizhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16177816999445200498noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8139090473142121059.post-15343984534530408462013-01-11T02:00:00.000-08:002013-01-11T02:00:11.660-08:00On My Shelf // January 2013<div style="text-align: justify;">
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I have been doing a <u>ton</u> of reading lately. Something about winter makes me just want to curl up on the couch with a blanket, cup of tea, and a good book. I've decided not to review all of the books here, just a couple. If I did them all, the post would be <u>way</u> too long.</div>
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As part of my 35 by 35 goals, I want to re-read the Harry Potter series. Part of that is because I'm not 100% sure that I ever read them all. I have to say, Chamber of Secrets is not my favorite of the series. I really think that J.K. Rowling hit her stride starting in the next book and then got even better following that.<br />
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My rating: <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/493922511">3 of 5 stars</a><br />
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This was a free book on Amazon (I read it on my Kindle), so I didn't really have high hopes for it. For the most part, I find "sequels" to Pride and Prejudice to be ... well, not good. This was a pleasant surprise. First, the author did not try and write in the tone of Jane Austen. She knew she wouldn't be able to recreate that and didn't even try.<br />
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<br />Lizhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16177816999445200498noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8139090473142121059.post-72900210260973607952013-01-06T02:00:00.000-08:002013-01-06T02:00:01.797-08:00Changes Around Here<div style="text-align: justify;">
I've decided to spice things up on this ol' blog for the new year. Nothing too radical, just some things I've been thinking about for the last month or two. </div>
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I am adding some new monthly posts:</div>
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* Gratitude Thursday : Last Thursday of the month </div>
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* What's On My Shelf : Second Friday of the month - book reviews and what I wanna read</div>
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* DIY to Real Life : Third Tuesday of the month - I'm gonna start knocking stuff off my Pinterest boards</div>
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* Wanderlust : Travel ideas, where I dream of, trips I've taken, etc. - This has no set date and will probably be irregular</div>
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I'm planning follow ups on some of my most popular posts to date. I've decided to try and be more open with you, my readers, so be prepared for some feels coming your way. AND - I'm planning a BIG one year blog-aversary giveaway for May.</div>
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I've also signed up for a monthly foodie swap through <a href="http://www.theleangreenbean.com/foodie-penpals/" target="_blank">The Lean Green Bean</a>, which is (hopefully) gonna be awesome! I can't wait to get all those goodies in the mail.<br />
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A revamp the design of Joyful Calamity has already started, so be on the lookout for the final product. All in all - I am trying to be more active and more dedicated to this corner of the internet.</div>
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Lizhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16177816999445200498noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8139090473142121059.post-65614905032268866332013-01-04T02:00:00.000-08:002013-01-04T02:00:06.701-08:002013 : What's in Store<div style="text-align: justify;">
As I've mentioned before, I participated in Molly Mahar of <a href="http://www.stratejoy.com/" target="_blank">Stratejoy</a>'s Holiday Council. In case you're new to it, the Holiday Council was 21 days of reviewing my 2012 and planning for 2013. One of the "homework assignments" was to create at theme for 2013 - which was really difficult for me. I was having a hard time letting go of the stress of 2012. I couldn't even get into the audio that Molly created for the course. </div>
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After freaking out that I would never be able to think of something that felt authentic to me and not just the "cool" theme to have, I decided to take a look at the post Molly wrote in 2010 about theme creating. Not even fifteen minutes later, here is what I was writing on the Council's facebook page: </div>
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<i>"It's amazing how these "aha" moments work. I was having a tough time on my theme. I wanted to do something on the "Live Boldly" line, but 2012 has been so draining, I knew I couldn't sustain that. I tried listening to Molly's call about creating a theme, but couldn't get into it for some reason. So, I decided to take a look at the post she wrote up about it. I didn't even get past the photo at the top of the page before it hit me! </i></div>
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<b><i>My theme for 2013 is "Active Renewal" </i></b></div>
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<i>That is just what I need - to refill my happiness, my energy, my love for life .... but hands on. Not just letting 2013 happen to me. Stepping up and taking charge of getting my life back in balance."</i></div>
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I have so many plans on how to honor this theme - yoga, more time in nature, camping weekends, hiking, getting a massage or two, taking time to explore my hobbies, nights where all I do is read, monthly date nights with Corey .... I also have plans on taking Molly's Fierce Love course to maybe help me learn to love myself a little more and not be so negative on myself. </div>
Lizhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16177816999445200498noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8139090473142121059.post-60788684193605336022012-12-31T05:32:00.000-08:002012-12-31T05:32:38.992-08:00Out With the Old .....<div style="text-align: center;">
This year has definitely been an adventure. Full of ups and downs and new experiences.</div>
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<b>January</b> saw me finally agreeing to move in with my man</div>
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<b>February, March and April</b> were ..... well, full of depression and no fun</div>
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<b>May</b> saw the beginning of this <a href="http://joyfulcalamity.blogspot.com/2012/05/welcome.html" target="_blank">new space</a> and Corey's <a href="http://joyfulcalamity.blogspot.com/2012/05/so-proud.html" target="_blank">college graduation</a></div>
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<b>June</b> brought an<a href="http://joyfulcalamity.blogspot.com/2012/06/feeling-odd.html" target="_blank"> unexpected loss</a></div>
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<b>July</b> was a brand new start: <a href="http://joyfulcalamity.blogspot.com/2012/07/kinda-sorta-officially-moved.html" target="_blank">a move</a> and a new <a href="http://joyfulcalamity.blogspot.com/2012/07/my-28th-year.html" target="_blank">motto for life</a> (and my b-day) plus tons of <a href="http://joyfulcalamity.blogspot.com/2012/07/fun-in-sun.html" target="_blank">fun in the sun</a></div>
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<b>August </b>I took it easy, talked about a <a href="http://joyfulcalamity.blogspot.com/2012/08/hiking-dream.html" target="_blank">dream</a>, and a <a href="http://joyfulcalamity.blogspot.com/2012/08/a-crazy-crazy-world.html" target="_blank">Zombie plan</a></div>
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<b>September </b>brought some <a href="http://joyfulcalamity.blogspot.com/2012/09/im-back.html" target="_blank">camping</a>,a list of <a href="http://joyfulcalamity.blogspot.com/2012/09/gratitude-thursday-little-things.html" target="_blank">things I'm grateful for</a>, and a list of <a href="http://joyfulcalamity.blogspot.com/2012/09/love-list.html" target="_blank">things I love</a><br />
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<b>October </b><a href="http://joyfulcalamity.blogspot.com/2012/10/oh-happy-day.html" target="_blank">Corey and I</a> <a href="http://joyfulcalamity.blogspot.com/2012/10/celebrate-good-times.html" target="_blank">celebrated one year</a></div>
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<b>November </b>A <a href="http://joyfulcalamity.blogspot.com/2012/11/the-new-digs.html" target="_blank">new space</a>, Turkey day, and some <a href="http://joyfulcalamity.blogspot.com/2012/11/so.html" target="_blank">disappointing news</a></div>
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<b>December</b> Another move, Christmas, and fun<br />
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<b>HAVE A SUPER HAPPY (and safe) NEW YEARS EVERYONE! </b></div>
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Lizhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16177816999445200498noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8139090473142121059.post-9053324358476028312012-12-23T02:00:00.000-08:002012-12-23T02:00:04.960-08:00John Denver and the Muppets<div style="text-align: justify;">
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Lizhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16177816999445200498noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8139090473142121059.post-42689337028290759152012-12-20T02:00:00.000-08:002012-12-20T02:00:03.167-08:00Holidays Can Be Rough<div style="text-align: justify;">
Every year around this time, I get sad. For me, this is one of the best and worst times of the year. You see, Christmas was my mom's favorite holiday. And she is no longer around to celebrate it with. </div>
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To make matters worse, December 16th was her birthday. The day we always got our Christmas tree. Anytime I get and decorate a Christmas tree, I inevitably start thinking about how much I miss my mom and how I wish she could still be here with me. </div>
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I'm actually fairly lucky. Christmas is one of my favorite holidays too, so I don't become a complete Scrooge and "ba humbug" my way through the season. Some people aren't so lucky. For some, the pain is too much to overcome. </div>
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I guess the point of this post is to remind everyone to be nice to the people who don't have the Christmas spirit. They may be dealing with a loss that makes a family holiday especially difficult. They may have no one to share the season with. They may just be lonely and afraid to reach out for someone to share the day with.</div>
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Lizhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16177816999445200498noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8139090473142121059.post-2111995108190048162012-12-17T02:00:00.000-08:002012-12-17T02:00:08.392-08:00Vision Board for 2013<div style="text-align: justify;">
You'll be hearing a lot more in the month of January about all of the work I did taking part in Molly Mahar at <a href="http://www.stratejoy.com/" target="_blank">Stratejoy's </a>Holiday Council, but one thing I wanted to share with you right now is the vision board I made for how I want my 2013 to look. I had a very enlightening time going over my 2012 and planning my 2013 with that lovely group of ladies. </div>
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<b>Do you do any sort of vision boarding in your life? Have you found that it helps, doesn't help, doesn't end up amounting to much?</b></div>
Lizhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16177816999445200498noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8139090473142121059.post-47746003191247151442012-12-05T02:00:00.000-08:002012-12-05T02:00:09.097-08:00Bittersweet<div style="text-align: justify;">
The move to Portland has been very bittersweet to me. I made some, what I hope are, really good friends. People I really want to keep in touch with. That I feel like I can really share with, talk with, and have a good time with. I tend to be two different people - "work Liz" and "non-work Liz". </div>
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Having said that, I really am excited about the change. I feel hopeful that this will be a great step forward for Corey and I. We were able to get a place with little to no effort all because of good timing and things just seemed to come together very naturally for us this time around. Bangor always felt like I bit of a struggle. Like we were always having to work hard for what we want and never really get anywhere. Portland, though, is effortless. Everything a clicking and there isn't any anxiety over whether or not we made a mistake. It is an awesome change after the last few months of stress.</div>
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It helped that I immediately got a job here. I ended at McCue on Friday and started my new job the following Monday. No time off for this girl!</div>
Lizhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16177816999445200498noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8139090473142121059.post-91219546791841240242012-12-01T02:00:00.000-08:002012-12-01T02:00:02.224-08:00DecemberBecause of the chaos caused by life lately, I have changed my goals for the last bit of the year.<br />
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First up, instead of working through the Magical Year worksheets on my own, I signed up for the Holiday edition of The Council on <a href="http://www.stratejoy.com/the-holiday-council-2012/" target="_blank">Stratejoy</a>. I am really excited to get my thoughts and plans figured out for 2013. It is going to be 21 days of teleseminars, workbooks, a facebook community, interviews with motivating speakers, and so much more. I hoping that using this with the move will really get the new life Corey and I are building off to a good start. </div>
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I've also decided to shorten my "to read" list. All I'm gonna do is read "A Christmas Carol." I figured that would be appropriate given the holiday season.</div>
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I really like this morning yoga routine (and yoga instructor) and I think I'm going to add it to my get ready in the am routine. I like that she encourages a little movement and swaying in the poses to make them feel better. </div>
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Lizhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16177816999445200498noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8139090473142121059.post-35199193478781919482012-11-29T02:00:00.000-08:002012-11-29T02:00:08.409-08:00I Won Fudge!!<div style="text-align: justify;">
My wonderful soon to be sister-in-law co-runs a review/giveaway blog - <a href="http://www.sparklingreviews.com/" target="_blank">Sparkling Star Reviews</a>. I've entered a few of the giveaways, but this is the first one I've won. And what a prize - a pound of fudge! It's like Christmas came early.</div>
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The fudge is courtesy of Julie at <a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/jewelofthelion" target="_blank">Jewel of the Lion</a>. I got four flavors all together - Chocolate Covered Cherry Cheesecake, Cookies and Cream, Drumstick, and Nutter Butter Pie.<br />
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The packaging that is came in was adorable. Julie puts a lot of care and attention into the packaging of the fudge, as well as the fudge its self. There was even a hand written note congratulating me for winning.<br />
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Lizhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16177816999445200498noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8139090473142121059.post-60403404724711535172012-11-26T02:00:00.000-08:002012-11-26T02:00:07.370-08:00The New News<div style="text-align: justify;">
As I've talked about<a href="http://joyfulcalamity.blogspot.com/2012/11/so.html" target="_blank"> before</a>, things were in a bit of upheaval recently. They are really starting to settle down though. </div>
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Corey and I are moving to Portland at the end of the week. Yup - <u>another</u> move is happening. Because of the eviction, we had to scramble around a bit and the only place we could really find was with his sister. Her and a few friends rent a house and they had a room available.</div>
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PLUS, last Monday I interviewed for a job. And I got it! Yeah! And it has health insurance. Double yeah! It's partially doing the real estate work I do now and partially receptionist work. It seems like a nice calm environment, the attorney is really nice, and all in all I think it'll be a great place to work. I am really excited about this change and I think it'll be a really good step for us.</div>
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Fingers crossed that this is the last bit of upheaval that is happening in the near future.</div>
Lizhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16177816999445200498noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8139090473142121059.post-30194487629846496512012-11-22T02:00:00.000-08:002012-11-22T02:00:02.622-08:00Happy Thanksgiving!<div style="text-align: center;">
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It may not be perfect or always rainbows and sunshine, but it's mine and I cherish it. </div>
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Even when life is tough (and it has been lately) I know that Corey always has my back.</div>
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Lizhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16177816999445200498noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8139090473142121059.post-43596912491966141982012-11-16T02:00:00.000-08:002012-11-16T02:00:03.715-08:00So .....<div style="text-align: justify;">
Apparently, I shouldn't post things that are happening on here. For example, <a href="http://joyfulcalamity.blogspot.com/2012/10/life-as-single-girl.html" target="_blank">I posted about Corey getting </a>a job 2 hours away and struggling with what to do and 6 hours later he got laid off. And now, the day after posting about <a href="http://joyfulcalamity.blogspot.com/2012/11/the-new-digs.html" target="_blank">my new apartment</a>, the landlord called to tell me that because Corey would be there all the time (since he was laid off), we could stay for November but then had to get out.....</div>
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Yup - Blogger is bad luck for me. I guess, though, that everything happens for a reason. Hopefully bigger and better things are on the way for us. I would talk about what we are working towards now .... but I don't want to jinx it. Just keep your fingers crossed that we don't end up living in a cardboard box in the middle of a Maine winter.</div>
Lizhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16177816999445200498noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8139090473142121059.post-87386408192389248592012-11-12T02:00:00.000-08:002012-11-12T02:00:09.571-08:00The New Digs<div style="text-align: justify;">
Sorry for the lack of posts lately. Corey and I have been working on getting settled into our new apartment. Which means ..... PICTURE TIME!!! I figured a little tour around the place was in order. Our place isn't fancy or big and we do have a roommate, but we are out on our own again and it feels <u>great</u>!<br />
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More fun news? My brother, sis-in-law, and their two kids recently moved about 10 minutes away, so I'm enjoying spending time with them. To intice my visits, they are even letting me do the weekly laundry there. YAY! I think my sis-in-law is just greatful for a little more estrogen in the room - she lives with my brother, two sons, and her dad. Lots o' men.</div>
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